Here's a list of BEST MOVIES I made a while back and just rediscovered:
My Top 50 Movies (Subject to Change if people remind me of great movies I left off, or if I look at the list again and decide differently, which I've already done a dozen times today)
1 - Good Will Hunting
2 - Braveheart
3 - Shawshank Redemption
4 - Life is Beautiful
5 - LOTR: The Fellowship of the Ring
6 - Dead Poets Society
7 - Saving Private Ryan
8 - Schindler's List
9 - Philadelphia
10 - Field of Dreams
11 - High Fidelity
12 - Cold Mountain
13 - American Beauty
14 - Batman Begins
15 - 300
16 - Magnolia
17 - Rocky IV
18 - The Village
19 - Forrest Gump
20 - The Rainmaker
21 - 12 Angry Men
22 - Toy Story
23 - About a Boy
24 - As Good as it Gets
25 - Hoosiers
26 - Contact
27 - Vertigo
28 - Unbreakable
29 - Robin Hood
30 - You've Got Mail
31 - A River Runs Through It
32 - Amelie
33 - Singing in the Rain
34 - The Talented Mr. Ripley
35 - Kung Fu Hustle
36 - Indiana Jones and the Last Crusade
37 - When Harry Met Sally
38 - Love Actually
39 - Se7en
40 - Castaway
41 - A Few Good Men
42 - Psycho
43 - Grizzly Man
44 - X2
45 - To Kill a Mocking Bird
46 - Moulin Rouge
47 - Tombstone
48 - Almost Famous
49 - The Recruit
50 - Finding Nemo
14 September 2009
Seven Months Later
13 February 2009
The Beloved Matriarch
I'm glad she got to meet Jack. She was the reason for his middle name.
5 Generations20 January 2009
Inauguration Day
Inauguration Blogging -thoughts as this great day in American History progresses:
8:30am - I overheard a group of old white guys the Blue Bottle today.
- Guy 1: Be sure not to turn on your TV today.
- Guy 2: Yeah. The media has to care about this, it's PC.
- Guy 1: It's just hard to believe. I'm not watching a thing today.
- I really wanted to turn around and just ask what their problem was, was it that he was a Democrat, or black, or just someone different than themselves? I really regret not turning around and engaging them. I'm sure I would have just been shrugged off.
11:30 - It's amazing how many living ex presidents and Vice Presidents are still alive. And there today.
11:48 - I know there has been a lot of controversy around Rick Warren, and think what you want, but its always awkward for me when someone prayers in a large group setting. It ends up being more closed-eyed sermon that personal or corporate worship with God.
11:50 - He just said the Obama girl's names with such a flair that they seemed like exotic dishes.
11:53 - Glad to see they brought Aretha Franklin in to sing, rather than Beyonce or Rhianna. Unfortunately, they gift-wrapped her head with a new-car bow.
11:58 - Alright, we've got a new VP. The first of two former President's (Cheney) of the day is out of the way. "Next please."
12:00 - Love that Yo-Yo Ma is playing. With Itzhak Pearlman. And 'Simple Gifts' is a beautiful song. One of my favorites. Oh! And a John Williams arrangement at that - it's a trifecta. I'll buy this when it inevitably shows up in iTunes later today. I love this...chills.
Sidenote: Yo-Yo can definitely relate/fit into the Obama theme of being a multinational kid. Something most drastically undervalue in Obama as President.
12:05 - Wonder if any other President has ever botched the swearing in like Obama just did. Must be pretty nerve wracking to shake him like that.
12:07 - Love the cannons firing off. And with the immediate playing of 'Hail to the Chief.' Time for the address now. Expectations are soaring.
12:08 - ' We have challenges. They will be met. On this day, we gather because we have chosen hope over fear." Indeed.
12:11 - He is sooooo BA. He builds up, he inspires, but he is realistic, sober; he is hard, he is determined. And he can give a speech like no other we have seen in this generation.
12:14 - This idea of 'remaking America' is so good and so profound. And I'm sure it scares the bejeezus out of the old guard. But I am all in.
12:16 - Love that Malia Obama isn't listening - she is taking pictures and playing with camera.
12:17 - What is W thinking right now? Does he buy this? Does he think 'why didn't' I think of that?" or is he thinking 'This guy has no idea what he's gotten himself into.'
12:19 - Love seeing the old civil rights activists there today. I can't even imagine what this day means to them.
12:22 - The call to personal action and personal responsibility is the strongest, most important part of Barack Obama's Presidency. If only we all respond, then we can begin to see change that lasts, change that is positive, change that fulfills the coming of the Good News.
12:25 - 'America...in this winter of our hardship...with open and virtue. let us once more brave the icy currents.' This really is the stuff of legends, what a brilliant brilliant speech! It brings chills and tears - it brings hope. And I, for one, embrace it.
12:30 - The poet should come earlier. This is anti-climactic. I'm ready for commentary from Brian Williams, et al. Anyway, a poet who uses the word 'edifices' should be shot. That word shouldn't exist.
12:37 - Again, the bendiction gets the same note as the prayer from earlier. Though, I love this guys voice. Old, grizzled, jazzy. But he ended with the funny color/rhyme thing. A moment of levity that is appreciated. "Let the yellow, mellow. Let the red man, get ahead man."
12:42 - It's very strange to hear patriotic music outside of the context of 4th of July. I've always been adverse to it (mostly because of being force-fed Sousa in band). But, here it makes sense and I sort of appreciate it.
12:53 - Fascinating: G.W. is the first President who won't get lifetime Secret Service protection. He gets just 10 years. He'll have to get his own security detail after that. Very interesting.
I look forward to watching the Parade and further commentary. I really want to see pictures and videos from people who were there. This really is an historic day. Disregard your own doubts, fears, your own political leanings and recognize that, regardless of what this President does, this is an historic day in our nations history. Do not take light what change has happened in the last fifty years. We aren't perfect, we haven't arrived - the Kingdom has not been established. But it is a day worthy of attention, a time worthy of recognition. A remarkable day.
31 December 2008
End of 2008
Skinny Love - Bon Iver
Furr - Blitzen Trapper
Glass of Water - Coldplay
In Love With a Girl - Gavin DeGraw
You Are the Best Thing - Ray LaMontagne
Let's Dance to Joy Division - The Wombats
House of God, Forever - Jon Foreman
Swimming Pools - Thao
Nine in the Afternoon - Panic at the Disco
Goodnight - ZOX
Death Will Never Conquer - Coldplay
28 December 2008
25 November 2008
15 November 2008
Extra Blog
I'll have an extra blog for the next month-plus. It's themed.
thebestofchristmas.blogspot.com
03 November 2008
The End of the Presidential Season
The longest presidential election cycle in history comes to a finish tomorrow. Over two years now (what an absurd realization that is) and we have come to the single day that all off the time, money, and effort was focused upon. Election Day 2008. No doubt it has been an historic election in so many ways. And while I have been a cynic for most of my adult life when it comes to politics, the ‘American way’, and unfettered patriotism in a post-9/11 world, I will walk away from the poll tomorrow with a hope that better days for our country are indeed possible.
I am a proud supporter of Barack Obama. Several months ago, that's not something I would have easily said aloud. Coming from a family devoid of political conscience, I've always felt uncomfortable talking about politics - it has been a foreign land in many ways. (If I'm honest, I still get a little nervous when a group of people start chanting a politicians name. I have an Obama car magnet, but refuse to put it on) And as I've followed (endured?) the election process since November of last year, I've learned a lot about a wide variety of issues, about the candidates themselves, but most importantly I've learned a lot about myself and how the world I interact with everyday operates.
From the very beginning, this has been an election that is in some ways, though certainly not all, should be applauded. The diversity of candidates who ran for the highest office in the land speaks to the growth of our nation’s character. There have always been fringe candidates, and there will always be a handful (or two) of folks who run without regard to the possibility of winning. You can always expect a war-hero to run: John McCain. And certainly, you’ll have the perennial third-party candidate: Ralph Nader. But looking deeper and further, there were legitimate candidates representing a wide swath of American society never considered at this level before. A woman: Hillary Clinton. An Hispanic-American: Bill Richardson. An African-American: Barack Obama. A Mormon: Mitt-Romney. It’s not diversity for the sake of diversity. This cadre of candidates represents leaders from across our country. It speaks to the character of our country and that is worth being proud of.
As for the state of our nation, these are increasingly difficult times we are living in. No, we aren’t growing victory gardens or recycling aluminum foil to build bombs in order to fend of Nazi’s or standing in bread lines to feed our families. But it has become clear that our way of living and our stance in the world, both of these, are going to require substantial changes. Economic turmoil, housing crises, two wars, global warming due largely in part to our over-and-disproportionate use of oil, spending more than we make: These things, among others, have brought us to a place of brokenness as a society (whether that has been readily acknowledged is something entirely). And so it is in times like these that we realize we cannot have the mentality of consume, consume, consume. We cannot simply put our heads down and tough it out. These are the times when we need great leaders emerge, for people to lift themselves up by the bootstraps, times where great change is effected and we as a nation can emerge united, understanding that we are all in this together. FDR brought that change. JFK had the vision of that change. And I think we have come to a place where, again, we must be inspired to live beyond complacency, to live beyond comfort.
A great leader will be necessary to bring this about. And I can understand the desire to see John McCain as the next President. He has experience in Washington, he has a military mind, and he has sacrificed much for this country. I certainly think he would be a competent leader. He is capable. I happen to disagree with him on a number of issues and everyone is certainly entitled to such a stance. Let's not miss the forest for the trees though. He may certainly become President and do no great harm to office and walk-us through a challenging time in our history. But I sincerely believe that it will take more than competence, that it will take more than a decades-long personal history in the halls of government.
I, like so many others, have been inspired and lead to believe that Barack Obama can do just what we all hope for. (Yes, I’m drinking the cool-aid). Inspiration isn’t everything. Lofty words and suave speeches won’t fix a problem. But someone who has a fundamental understanding that we are all in this together, that the answers to unifying a globalized world isn't through bullish decisiveness and stick-to-it-iveness that boarders on belligerent defiance. Barack Obama seems to understand that personal choice and responsibility is just as important as government policy. Top down change won't last and won't be effective. When Obama suggested that keeping your tires properly inflated as a way of energy conservation and a way to decrease the demand for foreign oil, McCain and so many others mocked him. The answer from so many others has continued to be, "Drill, Baby, Drill!" As if a reiteration of G.W. Bush's encouragement to go shopping after 9/11, McCain leads half the country in thinking the way to fix our energy problems is to increase the supply of what is raping our wallets and drastically changing the environment as we sit idly by.
We live in a broken world. It is full of problems and they seem to be multiplying by the day. And I don't presume to think that a President Obama will solve all of our problems, that he will fulfill every campaign promise, or even most of them for that matter. Candidates, almost by definition, promise things they can't control. Presidents can influence more than they can control. And I believe that a President Obama will influence Americans, he will call upon us all to step up and make a difference, to be responsible, to sacrifice, to embrace the needs of the country over the wants of our comfort and greed. I now understand that if you want to see a better world, to see a better country, to see a better home, then you must do your own part. Be the change you want to see in the world. I now understand that because I've sought out leadership from our candidates and found inspiration, hope, vision, and determination in Barack Obama. As I often say, it is far more important to wrestle and struggle through the issues of a campaign or life than it is to just vote in order that we each become more understanding in how our world works and where exactly we fit into that picture.
One final, personal anecdote about Barack Obama. When he came to Muncie in April, I had the opportunity to ask him a question during the town hall meeting. And while it was certainly worded poorly (like a fan-club question), I essentially asked how those of us who are new to politics can have the confidence to go and talk to others about the Obama campaign. At first he flirted around the question, but came back to it and summarized nicely, saying, "Don't try to sell me. Sell them on the process, to get involved and be part of the discussion and debate." It probably means more to me since it seems like such a softball question and generic answer. But he spoke to me and met me where I was - get people involved, not through an issue or a party, but in the process. If he is elected, I'll be able to tell my son someday that I talked with a President and even followed it up with a handshake afterward.
In the face of daunting odds, defeating the incumbent political family of the Democratic Party, enduring the fomenting xenophobia and baseless character smears, Barack Obama still believes in the fundamental ability of a nation, of its people, to rise above trying times, to shed the culture of divisiveness, and to look inward for strength to face the challenges ahead. Tomorrow, I am going to vote for Barack Obama. And if it does turn out that he wins the Presidency, it will be one of the greatest days in our nation's history. Being a student of history, I don't take statements like that lightly; I'm not saying it for effect. To elect an African-American man to lead our Nation, a black man raised by his white mother and grandparents, absent from his father who came from Africa, that will be undeniably historic. We have come a long way in the last 230-some years. Or even just the last forty. That alone is not reason enough to vote for him, but it will certainly be the biggest and brightest footnote to the beginning of a new era in American history. I gladly, and hopefully, welcome such a new era.
29 October 2008
Things About the Season
At the risk of repeating myself, I love this season - autumn. And here's why:
- Apples. pie, butter, crisp, cider, honeycrisp......all of the many uses of apple are delicious!
- Leaves. brilliant colors (especially at work), falling, crunchy (although, i hate raking them)
- Music. jon foreman, john mayer, nickel creek, vince guaraldi, things folky and moderate
- Gatherings. halloween, bonfires, football, anticipation of 'the holidays'
- Movies. these just seem like 'fall movies' to me, good will hunting, braveheart, when harry met sally
- Sweatshirts. And being close to my wife, staying warm, snuggling with Jack, family moments
- Riley. (nerd alert), some of James Whitcomb Riley's poetry is just perfect, particularly around this time of year
HEN the frost is on the punkin and the fodder's in the shock,
And you hear the kyouck and gobble of the struttin' turkey-cock,
And the clackin' of the guineys, and the cluckin' of the hens,
And the rooster's hallylooyer as he tiptoes on the fence;
O, it's then's the times a feller is a-feelin' at his best,
With the risin' sun to greet him from a night of peaceful rest,
As he leaves the house, bareheaded, and goes out to feed the stock,
When the frost is on the punkin and the fodder's in the shock.
They's something kindo' harty-like about the atmusfere
When the heat of summer's over and the coolin' fall is here--
Of course we miss the flowers, and the blossums on the trees,
And the mumble of the hummin'-birds and buzzin' of the bees;
But the air's so appetizin'; and the landscape through the haze
Of a crisp and sunny morning of the airly autumn days
Is a pictur' that no painter has the colorin' to mock--
When the frost is on the punkin and the fodder's in the shock.
The husky, rusty russel of the tossels of the corn,
And the raspin' of the tangled leaves, as golden as the morn;
The stubble in the furries--kindo' lonesome-like, but still
A-preachin' sermuns to us of the barns they growed to fill;
The strawstack in the medder, and the reaper in the shed;
The hosses in theyr stalls below--the clover over-head!--
O, it sets my hart a-clickin' like the tickin' of a clock,
When the frost is on the punkin and the fodder's in the shock!
Then your apples all is gethered, and the ones a feller keeps
Is poured around the celler-floor in red and yeller heaps;
And your cider-makin' 's over, and your wimmern-folks is through
With their mince and apple-butter, and theyr souse and saussage, too!
I don't know how to tell it--but ef sich a thing could be
As the Angels wantin' boardin', and they'd call around on me--
I'd want to 'commodate 'em--all the whole-indurin' flock--
When the frost is on the punkin and the fodder's in the shock!
20 October 2008
On Taxes, Socialism, and Word Choice
Here we sit merely two weeks away from Election Day. We've all grown weary of the ads, the debates, the spin. And I've not commented much lately as to how I've perceived things (not that anyone has been waiting with baited breathe).
In short, I think the debates have been largely uninteresting. I think both campaigns have made mistakes and both have gone negative. I do think McCain has gone more negative (and insidiously so), and by that I mean, making flatly untrue statements, trying to detract from legitimate debate, and cultivating fear and anger by playing on the xenophobic and narrow-minded ignorance of some Americans. I've a bevy of views and thoughts on everything from Palin to robo-calls to Bill Ayers. But today, I'll focus on economics (something I don't claim to have an mastery knowledge of).
The most recent stratagem the McCain-Palin ticket has employed is to suggest the notion, directly and indirectly, that Obama is "experimenting with socialism." Sunday, McCain went so far as to suggest Obama was a cover socialist, drawing a comparison that "at least in Europe, the socialist leaders who so admire my opponent are upfront about their objectives." Three things:
First, most Americans cannot define socialism. Before 9/11, that was probably the "scariest" word in the American lexicon, with much thanks to Joe McCarthy and the "red scare." Now it competes with "terrorist" or, regrettably, "muslim." The Republicans are deliberately choosing to play on this fear, a fear most don't know the roots of and a fear that too many are willing to buy into. I'd like to survey people and figure out what they really think socialism is; they won't know, I am certain. As my mother use to say (I'm so folksy), "Don't use a word you can't define."
Second, the jumping off point for Repubs to paint Obama red is from his conversation with the now-famous "Joe the Plumber." Here is Obama's direct quote: "Right now, everybody's so pinched that business is bad for everybody. And I think when you spread the wealth around, it's good for everybody." (emphasis mine). They are apt to say that the Obama-Biden plan is to take money from everyone and spend it as they see fit. It simply isn't that way, though. I think it is, at most, a poor choice of words (beside the point, the definition of taxes is that we give government, elect officials, and ask them to decide on our behalf how to spend it).
The idea isn't that Obama wants Americans to have an equal distribution of wealth, that all should have the same amount of money and equal lifestyles. He isn't penalizing anyone for being successful. Instead, he should have said that when you spread the economic responsibility to support government around, that is good for everybody. Because the emphasis, again, isn't to equalize wealth, but to make sure everyone is doing their part, financially (more on this in the next point). The goal is to have a fair and just tax system. And as Obama has pointed out, if you want to talk about redistirbution, the "Trickle Down Effect" was a type of wealth redistribution, the theory going that if you give tax breaks and incentives to big business and the wealthy (make the rich...richer), the effect will be economic prosperity, i.e. wealth, trickling down.
Thirdly, no one speaks better on the issue of needing to equalize the responsibility of taxes than the richest man in the world, Warren Buffett. When he says the rich should be taxed more, then I think we should all listen. He has famously talked for several years now regarding the fact that he roughly pays an 18% income tax and the average administrative employee in his office pays almost double, at 33%. He bet anyone on the Forbes 400 ($1 million to a charity) that they would find themselves in the same situation. No one has taken him up on that yet. Here is a link to a great interview with Tom Brokaw detailing all of this. And as he says, he doesnt' have an accountant or special loop-holes. All he does is pay according to what the IRS tells him to. And quippy as always, "I guess I do have a tax planner. His name is President Bush." The rich get richer, the poor.....Here are a few articles that are on Buffet and class warfare.
In Class Warfare, Guess Which Class is Winning?
Warren Buffett on the Bailout and Taxes
Taxes and Paying my Fair Share
Obama doesn't want to equalize wealth, redistribute it or in turn move us into a socialist state. He wants to set right a system that heavily favors those that have moved beyond the point of needing favor. That's why he wants tax credits for childcare expenses, a tax credit for college students who serve their country and community (it's not a handout), and numerous other initiatives aimed at balancing the economic strain and increasing the opportunity for everyone, regardless of their tax bracket, to live a decent life. The alternative is maintaining the status quo, allowing the top 10% to continue to pay half-as-much in taxes as you and me.
And I think it serves as good evidence socialism isn't the goal (or even a thought) when one of the most successful capitalists ever (Buffett), a four-star general and former Secretary of State (Colin Powell), and uber-conservative Christopher Buckley have all endorsed him.
If you want to argue any of this with me, you've got to start by defining socialism. And it can't start with "redistribution of wealth" because that is a crap answer.
19 October 2008
Fall
I'm not sure why it always goes downhill
Why broken cisterns never could stay filled
I've spent ten years singing gravity away
But the water keeps on falling from the sky
And here tonight while the stars are blacking out
With every hope and dream I've ever had in doubt
I've spent ten years trying to sing these doubts away
But the water keeps on falling from my eyes
And heaven knows, heaven knows
I tried to find a cure for the pain
Oh my lord! to suffer like you do
It would be a lie to run away
(Jon Foreman, "The Cure for Pain")
05 October 2008
State of the Union
What does it say about our 'great country' when the top movie at the box office is "Beverly Hills Chihuahua" ? $29 million?!
I will vote for whoever promises to eradicate cultural successes such as this.
03 October 2008
29 September 2008
22 September 2008
Oh, America..... (sigh)
Baskin Robbins Death Shake Has 2,300 Calories
Last time I checked, an adult male should consume 2,500 calories a day, and this shake nearly meets that requirement! The saturated fat present in that shake is over 3 times the RDA of 20 grams, which will put you on the fast track for heart disease. Of course, that's if the Type 2 diabetes caused by all 266 grams of that sugar doesn't get you first.
While I believe that people should be held responsible for what they consume, I think corporations need to share just a little responsibility too, and not sell piles of liquid sugar and fat like this. I'd be surprised if even 1 in 100 of the folks that consume that shake know just how bad it is.
On the plus side, it does provide 120% of the RDA for calcium. Oh, and about 1600% of the RDA for Heath candy bars.
 Serving Size 1 Serving (32 fl.oz) | |||
| Amount Per Serving | |||
| Calories 2310 | |||
| % Daily Value* | |||
| Total Fat 108g | 166% | ||
| Saturated Fat 64g | 320% | ||
| Trans Fat 2.5g | |||
| Cholesterol 295mg | 98% | ||
| Sodium 1560mg | 65% | ||
| Total Carbohydrates 303g | 101% | ||
| Dietary Fiber 2g | 8% | ||
| Sugar 266g | |||
| Protein 35g | |||
| Vitamin A | 60% | ||
| Vitamin C | 15% | ||
| Calcium | 120% | ||
| Iron | 6% | ||
04 September 2008
Two Weeks Later....
Benefit #1 from having a kid:
The ability to fall asleep in an instant.
It use to take me 20-30 minutes, on average, to fall asleep. Now...instantly.
20 August 2008
Get Excited!!!
It's baby time!
We are at the hospital and getting ready for his arrival!
If you want to follow along:
http://babybouse.blogspot.com
10 August 2008
A Great Start
The Olympics got off to a great start this weekend. I knew I loved watching them, I just forgot how intense it can be. And it is so hard to pull myself away from them.
The highlights this weekend:
USA over China
"The Redeem Team" put it on against China in the opener. When Yao Ming started the game with a three, I was worried. But once everything settled down in the second quarter, the USA took control and lead the way, finishing with a 31 point victory. Not the hardest team ever, but the home team nonetheless. Starting out on the right foot.
Men's 4X100 Relay
After the third leg, I turned and walked away, seeing as the US team was behind the world-record holding Frenchman by a half second. Nevermind that three teams were ahead of the world record by four full seconds. But when Jason Leezak made his historic comeback and won the race by .08 seconds....WOW!!! Absolutely unbelievalbe and what the Olympics are about, what competitive sports are about. It was absolutely shocking!
"By a fingertip, Michael Phelps is still on course for eight gold medals. He can thank Jason Lezak for getting him No. 2. The oldest man on the U.S. swimming team pulled off one of the great comebacks in Olympic history Monday morning, lunging to the wall just ahead of France's Alain Bernard in a race so fast it actually erased two world records. Wow!
Few sporting events live up the hype -- this one exceeded it. The 32-year-old Lezak was nearly a body length behind the massive Bernard, who not only holds the 100 free record but also announced his relay team would "smash" the Americans, as they made the final turn, but the American hugged the lane rope, drafting off the Frenchman and stunningly overtaking him on the very last stroke."
So Michael Phelps has his two hardest events out of the way (especially since the 4x100 was only 1/4 his doing), both world-records and gold medals. He may just be able to do it - the unimaginable eight golds in a single games. Here's to hoping.
Update: Watch the race here - http://www.nbcolympics.com/video/share.html?videoid=0811_HD_SWB_HL_L0194
09 August 2008
Neat Map
Check out this very cool interactive map of All-Time Medal Counts for the Olympics. I love things like this. From the New York Times.
Olympic Medal Counts Over the Years.